Pitfalls of dating an older woman
Free, but a prisoner You have been freed from the dating game, from the painful aspects of being single, yet you are tied to his schedule.
You find yourself forgoing activities that you used to enjoy that might make you unavailable to him should he suddenly have time to see you.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.You maintain the sense of safety by trying not to think about these realities.Self-righteous, yet guilty You tell yourself you deserve to be happy, that you are making him happy.However, as time goes by he becomes one of the few people you can be intimate with because you cannot share what is most important for you in your life with most others.Friends and family sense you are closed off in some way, and can become confused and discouraged about your relationship with them.
You may find yourself stood up when various situations arise with his family that prevent him from keeping dates.